Domestic Violence Awareness
Although our club has supported many projects during the 2007-2008 Rotary year, The Rotary Club of Chariho has also focused on the opportunity to increase awareness of domestic violence, abuse and victim support.
On behalf of the Domestic Violence Resource Center
of South County, Club Rotarians and Interactors sanded
and painted Silent Witnesses, plywood silhouettes that
represent people who have lost their lives through
Domestic Violence. The silhouettes are painted
“Danger Red”.
The Club also made a donation to the Rhode Island Chapter of the Silent Witness Program, sponsoring a silhouette on behalf of Holly Friel, who lost her life through domestic violence. Holly was the sister of our beloved Bradley Friel, Chariho Centennial Rotarian. Garrie Leitner, Public Relations Director of the DVRCSC, was invited to hold a Silent Vigil at our biggest fundraiser, Swamp Yankee Days, kicking off the Domestic Violence Awareness month of October. Garrie set up an informational booth, was available for questions and distributed literature. A Domestic Violence Star Light Board was also on display. Star Light Board participants are asked to pin a star on the board if they knew someone who was the victim of Domestic Violence.
On the last day of our Festival, The Silent Vigil was
held. The Club furnished candles and distributed them
to festival goers. Rotarians and members of their
families gathered at the bandstand, standing next to a
Silent Witness. Each silhouette had an engraved
brass plaque that bore their name. As Garrie moved
to each of us with a microphone, we would read a
short biography of the person who had lost their life.
Spectators were extremely moved, many to tears.
The voices of the Silent Witnesses were heard. Their
message was strong. "Stop The Violence".
It was suggested that The Rotary Club the club partner with Vantage Point, Inc., a group dedicated to ending interpersonal violence. Under Dr. Carty’s direction, teenagers and adults from the community had created an interpersonal violence prevention program called Love Peace. This was a 1 ½ hour, 4 week program. The Club has sponsored this program to be conducted at the Exeter Job Corps, a youth residential and career training program, many from troubled backgrounds. Led by Vantage Point counselors, the program facilitated identification of what abuse is, how we defend others and ourselves in our use of abuse, and perhaps most importantly, how to stop being abused or being abusive.
During the Month of December, Rotary Family Month, we
initiated the next phase of our Awareness Campaign. The five
libraries within our service area were contacted and asked to
partner with us. Working with the DVRCSC, a book list was developed suitable for all age groups. We selected thirteen books
for each library. Topics included bullying, conflict resolution, healthy relationships, and dating and domestic violence. Work shop dates were set up, and Rotarians and members of their families went to each library to read one of the donated books. Concurrently, Julie
Del Deo, the Community Outreach Advocate for the DVRCSC was available to answer any questions, and pass out literature about healthy relationships. Prior to the story hour/work shop dates, Julie had visited each library with literature, and the library directors set up individual displays.
The Domestic Violence Resource Center of South County opened an office in Westerly, and club members volunteered to distribute “New Site” posters around our service areas of Richmond, Charlestown, Hopkinton and Exeter, and continue to replenish them.
In February, we celebrated Rotary Family Week, by also
observing Teen Dating Violence Awareness Week. In
partnership with the DVRCSC, Julie Del Deo returned to the
Exeter Public Library to lead parenting workshops. The
Chariho Rotary Club sponsored the materials that Julie and
Garrie put together, creating a package that interested parents
could take with them. The package focused on Teen Dating
Violence, helping parents to identify behaviors associated with
victims, ways in which to get help, and also calling attention to
the Internet and it's own unique issues pertaining to dating
violence. Julie also set up a Starlight Board, wherein 16 stars
had been pinned to the board during the week. Additional
workshops are in the planning stage. The Club also purchased
two books for each library, relevant to parenting.
On Saturday, March 29, Make a Difference Day, The Rotary Club of Chariho initiated a
Cel phone Drive on behalf of the DVRCSC. Donated cel phones are refurbished and given
to clients, enabling them to call 911 if they are in a threatening situation.
For more information pertaining to Domestic Violence Awareness, contact:
The Domestic Violence Resource Center of South County
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